Hi! My name is David, and welcome to Big Fat Cake! I’m really excited to be part of this.

First, let me give you some background about myself, and then you will understand the title of this post. I’ve been engaged for about three months now, and I’m planning on getting married next year. If you’re wondering, I’m the guy in the relationship.

However, I guess I’m much more involved than most guys when it comes to wedding planning (that’s definitely true among my friends), so I’ve done my fair share of reading wedding sites and blogs.Inevitably, on every site I read, the content addresses its reader(s) either as “you girls,” or “all you brides.” It’s quite emasculating.

That said, I’m very excited to be a guy blogging about his wedding planning. My fiance may cringe, but I wear this proverbial badge proudly! (Just don’t tell people, okay? Just kidding.) So over the next many months, I hope you join me in this journey.