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Ordering Our Big Fat Cake

December 13th, 2009

A lot was accomplished yesterday! We met with the bakery that’s going to make our cake, and we also met with a videographer that we think we’ll hire.

First, we had our cake tasting and ordered our wedding cake. If you’re a fan of food shows on TV, you may have heard about “Cake Boss” on TLC. And if you have, you’d appreciate this even more because, guess what – Buddy’s making our cake! Well, maybe not Buddy specifically, but his bakery is.

with buddy and mario

Buddy’s the one in the middle (man, it feels good to be taller than a TV celebrity, even if it’s just a tad), and the guy on the right is Mario, his right hand man. These guys are pretty loud on their show, but during the meeting when we discussed our cake, they were so professional and low-key. Definitely gives credence to the thinking that reality TV isn’t reality at all.

Anyway, the process went like this. We went to the bakery at 11:30 for our appointment. When we got there, we saw a huge line outside. Ever since the launch of “Cake Boss,” celebrity gawkers flock to the Hoboken shop on weekends (it’s much emptier on the weekdays I’ve been there), and it was no different on the day we went.

line outside

After we got past the bouncer (no joke), we had to fight our way through a mass of people to get to the “waiting area” for people who had consultation appointments. Turns out there was a group ahead of us, so we had to wait.

inside

While we were waiting, a bunch of kids tried getting autographs from some of the chefs and staff there. Here’s a pic of Joe and Grace, taken poorly with an iPhone.

grace and joe

We flipped through a couple of binders with wedding cakes, and after a bit longer, we finally got called to go up. So we went, up the “famous” stairwell where they dropped some big (fat?) cake, and through a hallway into an office where Buddy was waiting for us.

He was really gracious, and was pretty sincere in apologizing for making us wait. We shook hands, and he gave us another binder with cake options that were included in our hotel package. As we started looking through the binder, he walked up to the window of his office, which looked down to the people lined up outside. When the crowd saw him, they screamed. He thanked them for coming out, and then, because someone in the crowd asked him to, he said, “Fondant.” That was pretty cute.

He then stepped out, and his assistant came in with some cake samples. There were maybe 8 or 9 different slices of cake for us to taste. Surprisingly, given that the missus and her sister were there, we didn’t finish everything (because, you know, they enjoy eating ;) ). While there were quite a few really good tasting options, it wasn’t too difficult for us to choose what we wanted for our cake.

As for the design of the cake, Mario helped walk us through that. We found a design in the binder that fit the “feel” we were going for, and then made some customizations. Changing things up cost us a few more dollars, but in the end, it’s going to be fine since the cake design is exactly what we want, and shoot, it’s pretty cool that a bakery that’s on TV is making the cake.

Oh, one other thing — we got to go into the kitchen as well. Mario wanted to show us an example of the design/style we were discussing. It was pretty cool to go in, since it looked exactly as it does on the show. Plus, we also saw this HUGE cake that was going to a wedding that day. It was pretty elaborate, and sized to feed 300 people.

So, we’re pretty excited about our cake. We hope our guests enjoy it too. :)

(Notes about the videographer to come separately.)

So a couple that I know is planning a wedding in Atlanta for next fall.  They have been venue hunting for quite some time now. They’ve seen a few places they absolutely love and a few places that they don’t.  It’s down to three contestants, which they recently shared with me. All three either have a garden adjacent or is within a garden, which was the main aspect they were looking for in a venue.

Pros: Great view of the city, In house catering, Tables chairs & linen provided

Cons: No real outdoor ceremony space, Venue can hold multiple weddings at the same time

piedmont

The Piedmont Room

2. The Atrium:

Pros: Pretty, outdoor ceremony space, In house catering, Tables chairs & linen provided, Great garden view from ballroom

Cons: Not a pretty building exterior

The Atrium

The Atrium

3. Cator Woolford Gardens:

Pros: Beautiful outdoor garden and ceremony area

Cons: Rent own tables chairs & linens, Hire own caterer, Reception hall is minimal and plain (not the couple’s style)

Cator Woolford Garden

Cator Woolford Garden

I came across this picture from the Cator Woolford Garden’s blog and just wanted to share it. I love the color, the sequence, and the energy in this series of photos.

Photo from http://www.cwgardens.blogspot.com/

Photo from http://www.cwgardens.blogspot.com/

Which venue do you like the most? Cast your vote with a comment!

Did you make it to the trunk show last weekend? If not, Mervis is doing it again this weekend. They say up to 25% off and they request that you RSVP. I hope you find an engagement ring or wedding rings!

Source: Mervis

Source: Mervis

Trip Planning

December 10th, 2009

A cautionary tale for you ladies. When the missus and I booked our honeymoon, we checked the expiration dates of our passports, and thought we were good to go.

However, in reading the fine print in the various Tahiti travel guides, we noticed that French Polynesia requires passports to have expiration dates no less than 6 months after your trip.

Well, we fly out of Tahiti on 4/2. And guess when my passport expires? Yup, 10/2. Theoretically, I would be safe, but why risk it. Thus, we decided to go ahead and renew (note I say “we,” since it was the missus who told me to).

passport

Well (again), it’s been a heckuva long time since I did anything passport-related, and it was news to me that renewing a passport cost $75, plus it cost me $8 to take two passport photos. Good grief!

I know what you’re thinking — this handsome young man sure is a cheapskate, given that he’s going to Tokyo and Bora Bora for his honeymoon. To that, I say you’re right. I’m handsome, and young, and yes, I’m cheap. Renewing my passport shouldn’t cost $83! Plus the postage. Never forget the postage.

Here’s to hoping that this application and my current passport doesn’t get lost in the mail.

“Green” Bridesmaid Gifts

December 9th, 2009

I know bride-to-be’s are always looking for new and creative ideas for bridesmaids gifts. One of my friends told me about these personalized water bottles, and I immediately thought they would make great gifts for bridesmaids. I have a few SIGG water bottles and just love them. Now that SIGG has teamed up with Cafe Press, you can personalize them for each bridesmaid, add your own photos, or even add phrases or sayings on to the bottle.  Plus, if you’re having a green wedding these would be perfect since they’re eco-friendly and reusable! Check out the website: http://www.cafepress.com/designer/sigg/?src=hph2

Source: mysigg.com

Source: mysigg.com

Source: mysigg.com

Source: mysigg.com

Source: mysigg.com

Source: mysigg.com

Pantone have just announced that the color for 2010 will be Turquoise.  This turquoise:

But what is Pantone you say, and why would they know what color will be “in” for 2010?  Pantone is the world’s leading authority on color.  Every year they release a deck of colors and these are picked up by the paint companies, fabric companies, and others who then add these colors to their collections,  and in the case of the paint companies, rename them to things like, “turquoise dream,” “cafe latte,” and “beach paradise” (I made those names up, but I think you catch my drift ;-) ).

For brides, Pantone has teamed up with Dessy to provide 200 dresses in Pantone colors (yep, including this turquoise shade)! (Dessy group owns Dessy, After Six, Alfred Sung, Lela Rose Bridesmaid and Sandals Destination Wedding Dresses). Dessy also has a feature on their site that lets you create inspiration boards using Pantone colors.

I’m sure many of you might be saying, “I won’t conform! I won’t go with this trend!”.  Sure, you could do that, but the beauty in going with a color scheme that’s “in” is that finding pieces to compliment your wedding are usually available in abundance, so theoretically, will save you time and money.

Are you going with a popular trend scheme for your wedding? I’d love to hear what it is!

A bride and groom update their Faceobook while at the alter. I saw this on the news this morning and found it on YouTube. Actually, I found two instances of it. I thought it was really funny but I would never have done it for my own wedding. What do you think?

Click for YouTube video

Click for YouTube video

Click for YouTube video

Click for YouTube video

The joining of two flames

December 6th, 2009

Gt and I wanted to incorporate an unity candle ceremony within our wedding as a symbol of love and union. For those who never witnessed a unity candle ceremony, here is a brief description. In the ceremony, close family members (for our wedding, it was GT’s and my mother) will light two taper candles, which represents the bride and groom as individuals. The couple will then each take a taper candle and light the larger candle together to symbolize the love and loyalty to one another created by the union of two hearts. The gesture of this ceremony is very sweet.

Our Unity Candle Ceremony

Our Unity Candle Ceremony

After a bit of shopping around, we realized that these candles were quite an expense for such a short ceremony. Also the majority of candle sets out there were white or ivory. I really wanted a unity candle that matched our color theme and flowers, which was green. So, I decided that I’ll just put together our own set. At the time (about February or March) Crate and Barrel was having a clearance of all their holiday goodies. On the website, I was able to find the tall center candle, which has a texture etched into the pillar with some glitter.

Flicker Pillar Candle from Crate and Barrel

Flicker Pillar Candle from Crate and Barrel

The rest of the supplies (plain ivory taper candles and glass candle holders) I bought from Michael’s. (Tip: most bridal magazines have a 20% off coupon for Michaels with their advertisement). I decorated the candles by tying some bows with ribbon on each. Unfortunately, I don’t have a photograph of the candle set close up. I spent about $15 for everything including the ribbon, which I also used for other things.

In addition, we had bought a few more of the green pillars in different sizes to put on the place-card table. After the ceremony, the unity candle was moved to the place-card table along with the other pillars. It was to reflect the light of love that will continue to glow throughout our lives.

At the place card table

At the place card table

Are you thinking about having an unity candle ceremony? Or if you’re married, did you have one?

If you’re planning on buying an engagement ring during holiday sales, then you should consider going to the trunk show at Mervis. It’s this weekend from today to Sunday in the DC area and they say up to 25% in savings. Scott bought my engagement ring there and we bought our wedding rings there, too. We really liked their service and would go back there again.

Source: Mervis

Source: Mervis

If you go, leave a comment to tell us what you thought (after you pop the question, of course).

When is it too much? Source: Veil Tales

When is it too much? Source: Veil Tales

Are you getting married during the holidays? Have you decided whether or not to use holiday decorations? I’ve known only a couple of brides to get married during the holiday season, whether it was Thanksgiving or Christmas (New Year’s would be a fun wedding!) and they struggled with whether or not to incorporate the seasonal holiday decorations into their wedding. American Bridal has some tips on planning a holiday wedding. What do you think?