I’m so impressed by these grooms that put so much effort into the marriage proposal. This groom surprised his bride a sweet dancing number in Washington Square Park in NYC.
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Proposal Like Romantic Comedy or Musical
June 16th, 2010Wedding Proposal
June 10th, 2010I don’t know how long it took for this guy to put this proposal together, but it must have taken lots of hours of practice and coordination. Kudos to him because she said yes! Taken from Today’s Big Thing.
Engagement Dress Debut
May 27th, 2010
You know you’re engagement dress was awesome when it shows up on the 90210 season finale. hahaha. That happened to my friend, Rebecca. How awesome is that? However, I think she looks better in it. Rebecca, your fiance is one lucky guy!
Has your engagement dress shown up anywhere unexpected?
Circle Conundrum
April 21st, 2010Originally I had simply wanted 2 very thin rings to sandwich my engagement ring– total cost would be about $100. The reason? I like symmetry.
But my engagement ring offered a matching wedding band that would be at least another $300 more than my original idea. Needless to say, I was in a conundrum…
SO I rushed to this fabulous jeweler called “Unique Fine Jewelry” in the Metropolitan D.C. area in order to try on the ring with the wedding set. It took my breath away.
This made my decision even harder! I decided to go to Kay’s Jeweler to see what it would look like with the two thin bands. Wow. So glad I went and tried it cause my gorgeous engagement ring ended up looking like a men’s ring
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So we were set, we’d go with the wedding set for my engagement ring and wedding band… [[which put the budget $300 over]]
But for my fiance’s wedding band, he wanted it to look like this: It’s a 5mm Milgrain wedding band… simple yet elegant to match the milgrain on my band

Anyhow, once place was offering it for $318 (super cheap right??). BUT we are enrolled in their rewards program because Mr. Mercy bought my engagement ring from them… so minus $50 from the price= $268. Then I started thinking… duh! this company does PRICE MATCHING… so I searched on google for the exact same description band… and voila! I found it for as low as $260. I quickly wrote an e-mail to the company and they responded within about 15 minutes via e-mail– THEY AGREED TO PRICE MATCH! so it will be $260- $50 (rewards program) =$210!!!!($100 saved!)
Lesson of the day? ALWAYS ask if a company will price match– 99% of the time they well and you will save money if you do your research!
V-Day Engagement Ring Pic
February 24th, 2010My friend Jill that I studied abroad with in college recently got engaged and posted this picture of her engagement ring on Facebook. It was such a great pic, I just had to find out how she came up with such an adorable idea and share it with you! She said she had thought about taking a picture of her engagement ring but wasn’t sure exactly how to do it. She debated about what types of props to use, if any, and tried a few things but wasn’t pleased with any of them. She happened to buy conversation hearts on sale after Valentine’s Day and had a dish of them on her desk at work. Looking at that dish of conversation hearts, she had sort of a “aha!” moment. She then began playing around with her camera, putting it on different settings to see what worked. Since diamonds are hard to focus on, she found that the macro setting seemed to work the best. She ended up taking a number of shots, but this one was by far her favorite. Congrat’s on the engagement Jilly
If you’re thinking about doing a similar pic, I recommend heading to the store ASAP before all the conversation hearts are gone!
It’s a Taiwan photo shoot : Part III
February 21st, 2010
This is a continuation from one of my previous posts: Part I & Part II.
We got the digital photos! Just a couple of days ago, GT and I had our third wedding reception. It was held here in Taichung, Taiwan. Although it was just a small intimate lunch reception with just relatives, we still observed a few traditions. I changed into 4 different outfits, 3 of which were lent by Masa LiLi (included in our photo package). They also included the dress for the flower girl and a little boy, who walked in with us during our grand entrance.
After our first entrance, GT’s eldest uncle made a speech. After the speech, changed into a different outfit, we made our grand entrance for the second time. This time, we danced in along to ‘Poker Face’ with four of GT’s cousins. It was so much fun! We then played a game which consisted of red envelopes, followed with more speeches from uncles and then grandma. We then went around to room to each table to thank the guests.
Before I knew it, I was in outfit number 3 (qi pao) standing behind two Chinese lion dancers making our grand entrance for the third time to Chinese New Year’s music. It is lucky to give the lions red envelopes. So of course, GT and I each gave one of the lions a red envelope. Afterward, GT’s dad gave a speech.
Finally, I was in my last outfit for the feast. The MC made an announcement that the reception is coming to an end. She directed people towards the back of the room. The room had a stage at the back which was beautifully decorated with floral, greens, and branches. (I’ll have to post photos when we get them from the photographer.) One after another, the guests took turns taking photos with GT and I, who stood there like wax museum figures.
After two and half hours, all the guests were gone. I was amazed even though the MC had advised beforehand, it would take no more than 2 1/2 hours for everything we had planned. It went by like a light breeze.
And now, we are finally able to go on our honeymoon! We are off to Bali!!
It’s a Taiwan photo shoot : Part II
February 9th, 2010This is a continuation from one of my previous posts: Part I.
The contract prohibited us to bring our own cameras and we have not gotten the digitals yet, so I won’t be able to post any pictures until we get them from the photographer. Photos below are some more from Masa Li Li’s website.
Selecting a photo studio and scheduling a shooting date was just the beginning. The night before our photo shoot, we got a text message to arrive at 10am at the studio after eating a full breakfast. We were also given some other specific instructions, which included to get a good night’s rest and to drink less water the day before. The full breakfast was because we were not going have much time for lunch, however the studio did provide a light snack mid-day.
Our one-day package had 5 outfits, which meant 5 different shoots. The first three were destinations were exteriors: old abandoned estate, flower garden, and beach/seashore. Our last two were indoor-studio shoots.
10am: We arrived at the studio. Immediately, we were sent into makeup & hair for both bride and groom. (Yes! Even the groom had to wear makeup.) Got dressed into outfit no.1. The makeup artist discussed with me how my hair was going to be done for the second and third outfits, since she doesn’t come along with us for the exterior shoots.
11:30am: Photographer, his assistant, bride and groom were put in a van. We were off! Our first stop was fairly close by, about a 20 minute drive, an old abandoned estate. Cool! This estate had an interior courtyard with a fountain in the middle (no longer working). Vines and grass were overgrown all over the place. Although much of the floors inside the building were collapsed, the columns and steps on the exterior were great backdrops. The first shoot lasted about 30 minutes or so. Before we got started, the photographer instructed us to not smile for this shoot.
12:30pm: Back at the van with the windows covered, GT helped me change into outfit no.2. The photographer and his assistant helped reapplied my makeup and changed my hairstyle to match the outfit. We immediately departed for our second destination, which was about 30 minutes away.
1:00pm: We arrived at a plant/flower garden with clear skies and lots of sunshine. It was absolutely beautiful, I’ve never seen anything like it before. Not only were there other couples dressed up like us with photographers trailing after them, there were a lot of spectators as well. Being shy was not an option. There were people taking pictures of us with their cellphones. This shoot took a lot longer, since we had to walk around to the different fields of flowers. For this shoot, we were to smile as much as possible.
2:30pm: Back at the van with the windows covered again, I changed into outfit no.3. For the beach, my hair was to be natural and flowing. The photographer sprayed my head down with water and I brushed through all the curls and hairspray on our way to the coastline. By the time we reached the shore, the sun was replaced with layers of clouds and a bit of drizzle. We continued on. This was the toughest one, in my opinion. Not only was it cold and wet, but the corset of the dress was jabbed into my ribs. I have to admit, the photos from the beach were worth the temporary discomfort.
4:00pm: Packed up and on our way back to the studio. Phew! Three down two more to go!
5:30pm: Back in the makeup artist’s station, I was getting my hair recurled, makeup redone. Shoot no. 4 and 5 were done indoors. Other than the sales office, the studio had a few other locations on that same street set up for interior studio shots.
9:00pm: Finally! The day was done.
Two days later, we were back at the studio picking 30 images out of 175. This was not an easy task! These 30 images were to be printed on little cards, bookmarks, and postcards for our guests, as well as placed in an album.
We’re getting the digital images this week. So I’ll post them soon, so keep an eye out for them!
Jeff & Erin’s EPIC Video Save the Date
January 26th, 2010Just saw this video save the date this morning. Apparently it’s a growing trend, but since the couple took their video down from YouTube, it tells me that if you want to keep your wedding gate-crasher free, you might not want to post it on a social networking site!
Here’s the video as part of the CBS News report. Update: here’s the full video.
Garden and Tools Shower
January 10th, 2010
Source: InvitationBox
My male co-worker told me that he was invited to several “tool showers” the last couple years. We both think this idea is a marketing ploy for tools/hardware companies to get involved in the wedding industry, but regardless, it could be an appropriate theme for your friend. In fact, this past year, Scott and I have purchased many tools for our new home so it makes sense to me to throw this kind of shower for a friend that will be living in a single-family home. If you go this route, here are some invitations for a “Tools Shower” or a co-ed “Garden and Tools Shower.” This type of shower could also be a tame bachelor party if you include beer and BBQ. :O)
Ring Twisty Action
December 28th, 2009I love my engagement ring, I think it’s gorgeous. But one complaint I have is that there’s this ring-twisty-action where the ring gets spun, especially when I’m in the shower. I wish that I could size the ring smaller and be done with it, but then it wouldn’t fit over my knuckle. I wondered if there was a solution so I went to Mervis where Scott got the engagement ring and wedding rings. There are several options that were presented to me:
- Add sizing balls to the ring – Little balls (resisting crude joke here) get added to the inside of the ring. I read on forums that folks with bony fingers will find it painful but those folks who have some flesh will find discomfort for only a couple of days. This solution doesn’t work for me anyways because of my chunky knuckles. Here’s a thread from PriceScope about it (also where I got the photo below):

Source: travl4me1
- Horseshoe sizer – A spring the shape of a horseshoe is added to the inside of the ring. This solution would be ideal for me since it would go over a big knuckle and stay put on a skinny finger. However, someone at Mervis looked at my ring and said there wasn’t enough space for me to add a horseshoe sizer. If the ring size was bigger, I would be able to:

Source: jazmine
- Tension bar – A ring guard or tension bar can be added to the inside:

Source: Sardis
- There’s also an arthritis shank where the ring opens up over the knuckle and then you snap it back into place. I wouldn’t go for this option because I think about how the ring could break. Here’s a thread that talks about the ring guard and arthritis shank (where I also got the pictures from ).
- Another option Mervis presented to me was the solder the engagement and wedding rings together. It would minimize the twisting but wouldn’t solve it.
- The last option is to decrease the size of the diamond to make it less top-heavy. But I don’t want to do that. :O)
It’s a lot of options, most of them shared by Mervis and some I read from forums. I’m leaning towards soldering but it’s so much commitment to do that (ironic, I know).
Have you experienced the same dilemma? What did you decide?




















