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Your Wedding Date Horoscope

March 5th, 2010
Source: msnsymbols.com

Source: msnsymbols.com

If you haven’t set your date yet, this might help in making your decision! Check out your wedding date horoscope at horoscopes.aol.com and see what’s in store for your big day :)

This is a continuation from one of my previous posts: Part I & Part II.

We got the digital photos! Just a couple of days ago, GT and I had our third wedding reception. It was held here in Taichung, Taiwan. Although it was just a small intimate lunch reception with just relatives, we still observed a few traditions. I changed into 4 different outfits, 3 of which were lent by Masa LiLi (included in our photo package).  They also included the dress for the flower girl and a little boy, who walked in with us during our grand entrance.

Scene 1

After our first entrance, GT’s eldest uncle made a speech. After the speech, changed into a different outfit, we made our grand entrance for the second time. This time, we danced in along to ‘Poker Face’ with four of GT’s cousins. It was so much fun! We then played a game which consisted of red envelopes, followed with more speeches from uncles and then grandma. We then went around to room to each table to thank the guests.

Scene 2

Scene 2

Before I knew it, I was in outfit number 3 (qi pao) standing behind two Chinese lion dancers making our grand entrance for the third time to Chinese New Year’s music. It is lucky to give the lions red envelopes. So of course, GT and I each gave one of the lions a red envelope. Afterward, GT’s dad gave a speech.

Scene 3

Finally, I was in my last outfit for the feast. The MC made an announcement that the reception is coming to an end. She directed people towards the back of the room. The room had a stage at the back which was beautifully decorated with floral, greens, and branches. (I’ll have to post photos when we get them from the photographer.) One after another, the guests took turns taking photos with GT and I, who stood there like wax museum figures.

Scene 4

After two and half hours, all the guests were gone. I was amazed even though the MC had advised beforehand, it would take no more than 2 1/2 hours for everything we had planned. It went by like a light breeze.

Scene 5

Scene 5

And now, we are finally able to go on our honeymoon! We are off to Bali!!

presents

2010’s Lucky Date to Get Married

by Amanda

Once in a while there is one date in the year that is noted as LUCKY and very popular among the wedding industry. For example in the past we had 7/7/2007, 8/8/2008 and in 2010 we are blessed with another one- 10/10/2010, which lands on a Sunday.

Accordingly to the Shanghaidaily.com, “Many loving couples are trying hard to book a wedding ceremony on October 10, but face disappointment. The date (10/10/2010) has three 10s, a number which means to be complete and perfect in Chinese tradition, and thus is expected to be a very lucky day.”

Are you planning to get married on this date? If so, my recommendations would be to secure your vendors now if you have not done so already.

About Our Guest Blogger

Amanda, co-owner of Fresh Events Company, is a talented wedding planner from the Los Angeles area. She delights in wow-ing her clients with her design talents and creating memorable weddings.

Source: Microsoft

Google does everything…yes, even wedding planning. Google shares their wedding templates via their GoogleDocs sharing. For brides and grooms who have gmail accounts, GoogleDocs is an easy way to share documents, like the budget, guest list, photo album, to do list and more. Although, Google is  not the only technology guru to share wedding templates. Microsoft also has had their share of templates, even wedding invitations. Not as convenient for sharing as Google is, but the information is there. These tools from Google and Microsoft are not as sophisticated as the wedding planning websites you see online, but it gets the job done with familiar formats.

This is a continuation from one of my previous posts: Part I

The contract prohibited us to bring our own cameras and we have not gotten the digitals yet, so I won’t be able to post any pictures until we get them from the photographer. Photos below are some more from Masa Li Li’s website.

From Masa Li Li

Selecting a photo studio and scheduling a shooting date was just the beginning. The night before our photo shoot, we got a text message to arrive at 10am at the studio after eating a full breakfast. We were also given some other specific instructions, which included to get a good night’s rest and to drink less water the day before. The full breakfast was because we were not going have much time for lunch, however the studio did provide a light snack mid-day. 

Our one-day package had 5 outfits, which meant 5 different shoots. The first three were destinations were exteriors: old abandoned estate, flower garden, and beach/seashore. Our last two were indoor-studio shoots. 

From Masa Li li

10am: We arrived at the studio. Immediately, we were sent into makeup & hair for both bride and groom. (Yes! Even the groom had to wear makeup.) Got dressed into outfit no.1. The makeup artist discussed with me how my hair was going to be done for the second and third outfits, since she doesn’t come along with us for the exterior shoots.

11:30am: Photographer, his assistant, bride and groom were put in a van. We were off! Our first stop was fairly close by, about a 20 minute drive, an old abandoned estate. Cool! This estate had an interior courtyard with a fountain in the middle (no longer working). Vines and grass were overgrown all over the place. Although much of the floors inside the building were collapsed, the columns and steps on the exterior were great backdrops. The first shoot lasted about 30 minutes or so. Before we got started, the photographer instructed us to not smile for this shoot.  

12:30pm: Back at the van with the windows covered, GT helped me change into outfit no.2. The photographer and his assistant helped reapplied my makeup and changed my hairstyle to match the outfit. We immediately departed for our second destination, which was about 30 minutes away.

1:00pm: We arrived at a plant/flower garden with clear skies and lots of sunshine. It was absolutely beautiful, I’ve never seen anything like it before. Not only were there other couples dressed up like us with photographers trailing after them, there were a lot of  spectators as well.  Being shy was not an option. There were people taking pictures of us with their cellphones. This shoot took a lot longer, since we had to walk around to the different fields of flowers. For this shoot, we were to smile as much as possible.  

2:30pm: Back at the van with the windows covered again, I changed into outfit no.3. For the beach, my hair was to be natural and flowing. The photographer sprayed my head down with water and I brushed through all the curls and hairspray on our way to the coastline. By the time we reached the shore, the sun was replaced with layers of clouds and a bit of drizzle. We continued on. This was the toughest one, in my opinion. Not only was it cold and wet, but the corset of the dress was jabbed into my ribs. I have to admit, the photos from the beach were worth the temporary discomfort.

4:00pm: Packed up and on our way back to the studio. Phew! Three down two more to go!

From Masa Li Li

5:30pm: Back in the makeup artist’s station, I was getting my hair recurled, makeup redone. Shoot no. 4 and 5 were done indoors. Other than the sales office, the studio had a few other locations on that same street set up for interior studio shots.

9:00pm: Finally! The day was done.

Two days later, we were back at the studio picking 30 images out of 175. This was not an easy task! These 30 images were to be printed on little cards, bookmarks, and postcards for our guests, as well as placed in an album.

From Masa Li Li

We’re getting the digital images this week. So I’ll post them soon, so keep an eye out for them!

As my weekend travel plans get canceled due to the impending blizzard, it has me wondering: what happens to a wedding when it *really* snows?

Our last major snow storm also was on a weekend (December 19, 2009), so inevitably there were issues with people’s wedding plans that weekend too. Here’s some tips on dealing with a snowed out wedding:

If the weather puts a damper on your wedding plans, put on a positive face – it’s still your big day! Enjoy it! And maybe even go make a bride and groom snowman :-) .

tying the knot

January 31st, 2010

There are many many stories and cultures that have contributed to the term “tying the knot”.  Whatever it may mean or where ever it may have come from, it has stuck to be associated to mean “getting married” in today’s society.  Here are few cute examples of this term used {literally} in save-the-dates.

from cardstore.com

from cardstore.com

from www.lovelyinvitations.co.uk

image from www.i-do-it-yourself.com

image from www.i-do-it-yourself.com

from eestationary.com

from eestationary.com

How to tie a knot card

from mygoodgreetings.com

from mygoodgreetings.com

from minted.com

from www.polkadotbride.com

Transforming Blank Slates

January 27th, 2010

While searching for ideas, I came across this website called taylorcreativeweddings.com. They have super modern and ultra-hip furniture collections that you can rent for your wedding. They work with the brides, vendors, or wedding planners and transform blank slates into designer rooms. They offer furniture and props for the ceremony, cocktail hour, reception, lounges, bride/groom suites, and bar areas and are available 24/7, 365 days a year! Here are some of my favorite looks that they’ve created:

Souce: taylorcreativeweddings.com

Souce: taylorcreativeweddings.com

Souce: taylorcreativeweddings.com

Souce: taylorcreativeweddings.com

Souce: taylorcreativeweddings.com

from Masa Li Li

My hubby and I were a bit disappointed that we didn’t get to take many photos together on our wedding day due to the rain. So there was a suggestion for us to take some “hun sha” photos in Taiwan since we were there for a few months. So when we arrived, GT’s relatives sent us a few studios’ websites. Masa Lili, which was one of them, was supposedly one of the best. Unfortunately, everything is in chinese but the photos are beautiful.

from Masa Li Li

Last week, I went with GT and his cousins to Masa Li Li. The service is absolutely like nothing I’ve ever seen in the States. The studio provides all the outfits for the bride (wedding gowns and evening gowns), hair, makeup, accessories, and props, as well as outfits for the groom (if needed). The package also includes albums, framed prints, as well as little printed cards for the bride and groom to pass out to family and friends. These cards can vary in size and shape as the couple chooses.

from Masa Li Li

I realize what the unique thing is about taking these photos in Taiwan is the backdrop. Within one day, we will be able to access the sea shore, the forest, the botanical gardens, and an old estate (now a historical landmark for tourists). That is basically our agenda tomorrow.

from Masa Li Li

After we agreed on the terms a few days later, we returned to the studio to pick out my outfits and discuss with the photographer what we wanted. They have an amazing collection of dresses, which range from traditional qi paos to edgy evening wear. I had a great time trying out all the different dresses. The assistant also helps you pick and choose the right dresses for the environments/backdrops the couple had discussed with the photographer. All the components that make for a special picture is well thought out.  For a similar service and product, we are only paying a fraction of the price in the States.

from Masa Li Li

So tomorrow is going to be the shoot. I will follow up with another post about the day. To be continued…

Last week I went on a spending spree at one of my favorite stores – Michael’s.  Whatever the theme of your wedding, and regardless of when your wedding is during the year, as Christine has already mentioned, you can always make use of Christmas decorations!

Baubles are probably my favorite for using in weddings, and are available in tons of colors.  You can fill up a tall clear vase with baubles that fit your theme and use them as centerpieces – just make sure the tops of them aren’t visible from the outside so they look like regular balls and not Christmas decorations!  These balls can also be used to create a wedding wreath, perhaps with some fake or real flowers included too.

Baskets are also usually on clearance around new years, and these can be used for holding programs, rose petals (think flower girls), and bathroom supplies.

If the theme of your wedding is either red, silver, or green, finding ribbons and wrapping paper that are on Christmas clearance are also good finds – just make sure to get patterns that aren’t adorned with Christmas trees or other obvious Christmas patterns.

Another thing to stock up on is tape that’s on clearance – double sided is especially handy, but you’re more likely to find gift wrapping tape. Depending on what you’re doing for favors or thank you gifts, this can be especially useful.

"Love" Garland from the $1 section at Target last year

We’re now getting closer to Valentine’s day, so that means everywhere you go, you’ll find cute/kitschy heart adorned candy, decorations, and kitchen products.  If you’re hosting a bridal shower or bachelorette party sometime this year, Valentines Day is a great time to stock up on bits and pieces for the party!  Keep an eye on Target’s $1 section for some great buys! Last year I found a silicone heart shaped icecube tray in that section and I included it with my sister’s bridal shower gift.  I also found a red glitter heart garland which I used at the entrance to her bacherlorette party.

Valentine's Day M&M's are great for bachelorette parties and bridal showers.

Have you used holiday ornaments in a wedding before? Share how you have used them, or intend to use them!