
Reader Question:
What’s the difference between a bridal shower and bachelorette party?
I think it’s funny that I got this question from a guy because I think the underlying question is, “what the heck do women do at these events?” But I’ve heard this question from women, too so it’s not a silly question. A “shower” is hosted by anyone and it’s not limited to the MOH or bridesmaids. It is a party that is hosted in honor of a guest, and therefore, a bride cannot throw her own shower (I’ve heard stories before). Hosting your own shower (bridal or baby shower) is like asking for gifts, which comes across as very tacky. However, it is acceptable for a bride to ask her MOH, or any bridesmaid, to host a bridal shower. However, the bridesmaids are not obligated to throw a shower.

Kardashian Bridal Shower. Source: PopSugar
A bachelorette party is usually limited to closer friends whom the bride can act stupid in front of without any judgment. Sometimes the bridal shower and bachelorette party will be combined into the same day, especially if the guests will be the same at both. Of course, there are no rules for either one and you can do whatever you want to do. And to the disappointment of brides, a bridal shower and bachelorette party are not required to get married. The wedding can still continue without either one. Sorry, ladies.

Kendra Wilkinson's Bachelorette Night. Source: The Hollywood Gossip.